Don't Eat With Him
1 Corinthians 5:9-11
This command does NOT include:
Communion
Let a man examine himself – not my job to tell you not to partake
Not practice “closed communion”
If he is at service – pass him the tray – let him decide
Eating at the same location, restaurant
Being in the same location, store, bank, gas station
This command involves FELLOWSHIP! You are forbidden to:
Provide a sense of support, encouragement, endorsement for his actions
Call on him to work, lead prayer, participate in business meeting
Treat him the same as before the removal
Totally ignore, never speak to him
Fellowship – support – endorsement – This is the key to withdrawal
See 2 John 9-11 – Don't become his “partner” in this wrong
MAJOR PROBLEM TODAY -
We don't know, fellowship, support each other as we should
You can't take away what never was granted
Can't take driving privilege away from 3 year old
When church discipline does not work – it is for one of two reasons:
No fellowship existed in the first place
The motive was to get rid of rather than restore